My son accidentally stepped on his sister’s foot the other day and when she yelped “OUCH!” my son replied, “WHAT?! It’s not like I meant to do it.” I explained that his intention had nothing to do with how much it hurt. I also let him know that he needed to apologize for the pain […]
SAFE-GAURDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP FROM AFFAIRS: Are you in a committed relationship yet sending out signals that you’re still available?
I’ve worked with many couples whose relationships have been impacted by affairs. Nine times out of ten the person having the affair says s/he wasn’t looking for it to happen. The problem is s/he also wasn’t safe guarding from it happening. On the extreme, I’ve watched individuals who send a thousand signals out to the […]
AFFAIRS AND INTEROGATIONS
A common issue with couples impacted by affairs is how many details to share or not share. Often the partner who was cheated on has this insatiable need to know all the details. S/he wants to know how often, how good and how different the sex was. Did it happen in the couples’ bed? If […]