In response to my last post a couple people have written to me regarding the ideal degree of disclosure in affairs. I want to thank those voices for reminding me to clarify my message. My last post was regarding a very specific aspect of affairs and disclosure: your partner finds out there is someone else […]

I’ve worked with many couples over the years impacted by affairs. Inevitably the partner who was cheated on wants to know all the details; in particular, they want to know if their partner had sex with this person. So what’s the right answer? Do you tell your partner you did and run the risk of […]