Weekly Tip: Changing from explaining, minimizing, or justifying your actions to owning the impact your actions cause changes the trajectory of your relationship. There are few things more frustrating, disappointing, or infuriating than constantly having your upsets responded to with statements like: Why are you making such a big deal out of that? It’s not […]
The Foundational Principle To Save Your Marriage
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” ~ Albert Einstein A basic, foundational principle for every couple trying to recover from the brink of divorce is: If your partner is leaving you because of your actions, don’t keep doing the actions they are upset about. For example, if your wife is […]
How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Falling Apart
Below is a post from my new blog http://lmerlobooth.typepad.com/straight_talk_4_women/ Enjoy! One of my blog readers wrote in to say that she’d like to stand up for herself at work but was fearful that if she did she would be too emotional if she stood up to them. She’d been able to maintain her composure to […]