Recently, my husband and I had a very interesting conversation about something that was going on in our relationship.  Although I’m a bit embarrassed to share it, I realize it is a great learning opportunity for my readers…(as I write this I will continue to remind myself that I’m enough and I matter despite this […]

It seems that as we get older, we get more and more stuck in our ways.  For example, if I get really upset at my husband I tend to get quiet and stew.  I do this every time I’m really triggered and acting unhealthy (which is not that often of courseJ).  The point is I […]

A NOTE TO MEN…   One of the most common complaints I hear from men is they can’t do anything right.  They swear that no matter what they do–even if they do exactly what their partner asked them to do–it’s not good enough.  They are adamant that their partner will either complain about what they […]