I’ve had many couples come through my office doors struggling because they have no common interests.  They complain that neither of them likes to do what the other likes to do.  It may be that one partner likes to bike ride while the other likes to take walks or one likes sports and the other […]

Have you ever had that nagging feeling that something just wasn’t right?  Perhaps you feel anxious about your partner’s drinking or worried your partner’s pulling away or… (fill in the blank).  All you know is that you’re not happy with this “thing”, yet every time you bring it to your partner’s attention, they deny it.  […]

We’re often so trained at seeing what’s wrong—with people, projects and issues—that we sometimes lose our ability to see what’s right.  Our child gets a B on a test and we focus on the A they missed.  Our partner comes home an hour early and we ask why they don’t come home at that time […]