“Don’t ever use the behaviors of others as a measuring stick for your own.” ~LMB In a world rife with affairs, racism, sexism, extremism, etc., looking to others as a barometer for what’s okay and not okay is unlikely to steer you in the right direction. Married men and women are signing up on sites […]
How to Master Moderation
“Too much of anything—even a good thing—will often end up being a bad thing. Master moderation.” ~Lisa Merlo-Booth There are countless “good things” in life, such as: Eating healthy. Being kind. Having fun. Enjoying a glass of wine, cigar, or a night of gambling. Exercising. Going to church. Even the best things in life can […]
Dare to Be Honest About the Full Picture, Not the Softened Version
“Pretending something is better than it is will not make it better. Dare to be honest about the full picture, not the softened version.” ~LMB I’m often surprised by how many couples come into my office saying, “Things are pretty good, we just need to communicate better,” only to find that things aren’t good at […]