Women cannot stress to me enough how non-relational their husbands or partner are.  Unfortunately the men often respond to these complaints by saying the women are overly critical and insatiable.  They end up ignoring the complaints, changing nothing, and saying anything they did would never be enough for her anyway. Unfortunately, a high percentage of […]

I often write about the importance of being respectful in relationships and for a long time assumed clients (and readers) knew what I was talking about.  I know this probably was a big assumption to make so now please allow me to back peddle and actually explain what I mean when I say you have […]

Often we have a view of our partner that does not serve our relationship well.  For example, if my view of my partner is that he’s selfish then, if I’m not careful, I can easily interpret 90% of his behaviors as selfish. In essence I could create a “selfish” lens from which I view all […]