I was speaking with someone who was telling me that when he doesn’t do what he agreed to do, his coach questions him about his lack of integrity in his word. When I heard this it struck me how often we say or agree to things we don’t mean. In couples, this often leads to […]
Law of Attraction
I was watching the Kids’ Choice Awards one night and Will Smith made a comment to the kids that they will become like the kids they hang out with (my interpretation of his comment). In coaching, this phenomenon is called the Law of Attraction: we attract what we put out. How many criminals do you […]
Cleaning Up Your Relationship Closet
A friend was telling me a story about her daughter. She said her daughter had a friend who lived in her neighborhood and went to her school. When the two were at home, her friend was nice to her and fun to play with. When they were at school, this friend was consistently mean to […]