Below is a quick tool for communicating in a clean, respectful way: the feedback wheel. This tool has been around in various forms for many years. The form I use is adapted from Pia Mellody and Terrence Real. Note: I add one step to their feedback wheel: Open with a gift. Prior to using the […]
“CHANGING ME, CHANGES WE”
“Changing me, changes we” is a strong conviction I have. I believe that we, as a society, have become so skilled at pointing the finger at others that we have become blind to ourselves. We don’t realize that changing ourselves is the only way to open the door to healthy relationships. Instead we will go […]
Setting Limits
Women often ask me what they’re supposed to do when their partners do something they don’t like. If they say something, their partner accuses them of nagging; if they don’t say anything then the women get angry and resentful. So, what do you do? The short answer is don’t do either. Don’t nag and don’t […]
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