Let me start out by saying that we all make mistakes–it’s just a part of being human. I make more mistakes than I care to admit, and I’m sure many of you can say the same…if you are being honest. So if every one of us (yes, I do mean everyone) makes mistakes, then why […]

A key killer in relationships is defensiveness. If I get defensive every time my partner comes to me about something he doesn’t like, eventually he’s going to give up, blow up or bubble over with frustration and resentment. The same is true if he gets defensive with me. It is a recipe for divorce. Being […]