Hearing that your partner wants out of your marriage can feel devastating and scary. Even more so if you have children. Fortunately, saving your marriage is possible if you get intentional, are open to listening and willing to make long-term (even lifetime) changes. Saving your marriage or relationship is a process, not an event. If […]
When Change Seems Impossible, Try This
Most people who feel stuck try to solve their problems in the same way—they largely focus their time and attention on trying to change the other person. More times than not, they complain, yell, scream, plead, shut down, defend, rationalize and essentially do whatever they can to get the other person to “see the light.” […]
Saving Your Marriage is Easier Before Your Wife Asks for a Divorce
My most popular blog post by far is, “The Dos and Don’ts of Saving Your Marriage” (https://radicallynewculture.com/dos-donts-saving-marriage-winning-spouse-back/). Having received over 200 comments on this post alone, it’s clear that people are at a loss to know how to win their spouse back. More often than not, those comments are from men who tell me that […]