Our “edge” is that relationally dysfunctional move we do (when we are not at our best) in times of stress or conflict. Donald Trump, for example, repeatedly goes on the offensive when someone challenges him on his actions. Therefore, one of Trump’s edges is defensiveness, and, in particular, it’s defensively going on the offensive (he […]
The Do’s and Don’ts of Living with a Tyrant or Bully
Living with a tyrant or bully is anxiety-provoking, exhausting and incredibly stressful. People who bully and often blow up or rage have a problem with anger and need to get help. Their anger will push everyone in their life away from them until the anger stops. Your pretending the anger isn’t a problem doesn’t help […]
An Open Letter to Women (and men) Regarding Donald Trump
Dear Women, The fact that millions of Americans are jazzed about Donald Trump as a candidate for President of the United States has hammered home for me just how far we have NOT come as a society. We are about to embark on a crucial political journey—one I believe will greatly influence women’s futures. Donald […]