A common complaint I hear from couples is they feel distant. Overall, things are okay, no fights, no big issues, no major upsets – just a void. They report feeling more like roommates than lovers. Subsequently, they question their relationship saying although they love each other, perhaps they are not “in love” with each other. […]
Happy New Year!
Here it is again, that time of year when we make promises to ourselves about all the things we are going to do this year: lose weight, be more organized, clean up our finances ect. As I was sitting down thinking about my own “resolutions” throughout the years, I realized that seldom did I make […]
WHAT IS YOUR “EDGE”?
In my work with couples again and again, I hear each person discuss in great detail the flaws and problems of their partner. Seldom do I hear someone say, “You know this is what I have to work on in this relationship. This is where I take us off course.” Instead, I hear something like […]