All individuals have the right to be treated respectfully at all times in all situations. Learn to live by this value, regardless of how other people are behaving. This cornerstone is often met with mixed reviews, with a number of people not agreeing with it at all. When I speak to couples about this, I […]
What if it’s Not in the “Past”?
My last blog entry talked about the importance of not bringing up past behaviors and learning to let it go. What if, however the behavior hasn’t stopped? What if that one behavior, yelling for example, happened two years ago, one year ago and continues to happen today? If the behavior is still going on today, […]
HOLDING GRUDGES: IF IT’S HISTORY, LEAVE IT IN THE PAST
Repeatedly reminding your partner of what they did in the past that was hurtful, especially when they are no longer doing it, is holding a grudge – a detrimental move at best. Bringing the past into the present is seldom a helpful dynamic in relationships; it stirs up old wounds, leads to one partner believing […]
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